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I did it. It’s definitely lighter than it was but it may take another time of lightening to get it to were I’m at least happy with it.
So I will use the purple shampoo I ordered and wait a couple of weeks or so for my hair to chill and decide if it’s a light enough blonde or light brown to dye it or if I need to bleach it or do a bleach bath. I knew this would be a process so I’m not in a rush to damage my hair. I also need to get my hair cut to even it out into a bob cut.

Sometimes the simplest thing you can say is No thank you. Be honest with yourself and others don’t feel obligated to do something you don’t really want to do. It’s that simple.
People spend so much of their energy and time trying to hold off on something they really don’t want to do lying saying they will show but really knowing full well they don’t want to. Just say no from the get go. Yes, people pleasers it’s okay to tell someone you have no more fucks to give about something that is absolutely of no interest to you and put your time into the things that actually matter to you but they will get mad at me ?!
You can’t control how someone will react to you, you can only control how you react to them.